In today’s modern world, there is a lot of negativities surrounding the word “masculinity.” In truth, masculinity in and of itself doesn’t have to be a shameful or faux pas’ concept. Embracing your masculine side isn’t anything to be ashamed of. In many cases, men who have been deprived of their masculinity can even find themselves depressed, and ultimately oppressed.
At the end of the day embracing your masculinity is something you have every right to do. You may even find that by embracing your masculinity you improve your overall self-esteem and have a greater sense of who you are. So, how do you go about reclaiming your masculine virtues? Here are some ways to get started.
Strengthen Your Body
Regardless of how anyone identifies, biologically, men are inherently physically stronger than women. This comes from centuries of evolution. The men were the hunters and protectors of the realm, and as such their bodies are meant to do just that.
This is why you find more men than women in industries like providing lumper services, carrying out heavy manual labor, and other jobs that require significant physical strength. If you don’t have a job that is physically demanding, then it may call for you are strengthening your body outside of your job. Why not join a gym and hit the weights regularly?
As you see your muscles begin to grow, you’ll feel a unique sense of masculinity that comes with a strong physique. It’s not about intimidating anyone or even trying to appear better than anyone. Do it for yourself because you deserve to feel your best. If being strong makes you feel like the best version of yourself, then by all means do it!
Pursue Friendships With Other Men
It’s wonderful having relationships with females, and they can provide great insight into the opposite sex. After all without feminine there would be no masculine. However, in order to fully explore your masculinity, it helps to hang out with other men who live similar experiences as you. Spending time with the same sex as you can provide validation and understanding in ways that the opposite sex simply can’t provide.
That’s not to say anyone is superior or inferior, it’s simply a sense of belonging and being understood. Make time in your schedule to spend time doing “dude stuff” with your guy friends whatever that means to you as a group. Perhaps it’s going hunting, or maybe it’s playing video games. There are really no rules as long as you feel like you’re getting some male bonding in.
Assume Your Role In Your Relationship
If you would like to consider yourself a masculine person, then take on that role in your relationship. Be the provider and protector and live it fully. You can’t expect to feel more masculine if you’re living a life as a pushover or constantly giving in to what other people expect of you. Be the role you wish to be within your relationship, and you’ll find that that’s a great place to start.